Introduction
Japan is known worldwide as a "polite country". Japanese courtesy is given in many occasions such as the way of greetings by the train, the polite response at the store, and the consideration in the public place. But is the evaluation "the world's best" really appropriate? We will consider the culture in the background of courtesy, the actual conditions in daily life, and the potential issues.
1.Japan's cultural background
1.1 the courtesy of courtesy to cultivate "WA" and "refrain"
The core of Japanese etiquette is "keeping peace" and "オナホール for others". From the long group life, it was important to "do not disturb the harmony of the circumference" and "do not annoy others", and this was settled as a courtesy. For example, in the train, they talk in a small voice and turn off the phone's sound - these are courtesy on the extension of the culture, and respect the comfortable space of others.
1.2 percolation ridges from history and education
Japanese etiquette was influenced by Bushido and Confucianism in the Edo period, and it has been inherited through history. In addition, it is taught that "behave politely" in home education and school education. In kindergarten, 'manners',' thank you, 'and' respect for senior and teachers' in the school, cultivate manners from childhood. This education penetrates the whole society, and the polite behavior becomes natural.
2. Practical practice of etiquette in daily life
2.1 courtesy in public
Clear courtesy is observed in public places in Japan. At the platform of the train, line up on both sides of the door in order; In the restaurant, "eat" before the meal, and "after dinner," On the road, cars and bicycles are punctual and prioritize pedestrians - these actions are a natural courtesy for the Japanese.
2.2 courtesy in human relations
Courtesy plays an important role in exchanges with people. There are detailed rules such as greetings, gifts, and manners of visit. For example, when giving a gift to a friend, it is polite according to the time of "onago" and "Otome." When I visit another person's house, I greet you, and thank you for coming back home. These courtesy is the basis for maintaining the harmony of relationships.
3.The background and problems of the evaluation of the third world
3.1 reason shadows from the world
It is in the universality and completeness that Japanese etiquette is rated as "the world in the world". People in foreign countries feel that "the courtesy of a certain level is protected everywhere" and "the consideration to others is fine", and Japan is regarded as a model of politeness. For example, when a tourist listens to the road, the Japanese may politely guide or accompany them whenever necessary.
3.2 challenges behind the courtesy
However, there is a problem in the courtesy of "the best in the world". One is the problem of "superficial politeness". Sometimes courtesy is formally guarded, but there are cases in which there is lack of respect. For example, the salesclerk politely greets, but not responding to the true needs of the customer - this is a courtesy of 'kenmae' and is different from essential respect. It is also pointed out that among young people, the consciousness of traditional etiquette is weak.
3.3 challenges in harmonization with internationalization
Nowadays, Japanese etiquette sometimes leads to misunderstanding with 電マ people. For example, Japanese people's' complimentary greetings' can be seen as' cold and unkind 'in foreign cultures. Also, strict etiquette rules can be said to be "complex" and "pressing" for foreigners, which may lead to barriers to melting into Japanese society.
Conclusion
Because Japanese etiquette is born in the thought of "harmony" and the education for many years, and practiced in every scene of daily life, there is sufficient reason to be called "the best in the world". The detailed consideration and completeness are mentioned in many countries. However, we must not forget the problem of "surface courtesy" and "harmony with internationalization". Japan's courtesy will be truly "courteous in the world" by protecting the tradition and having flexibility to promote international understanding based on sincere respect. We can build deeper mutual understanding by understanding the essence and problem of this courtesy when we live and exchange in Japan.